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Day 16~ My biggest accomplishment

17 Mar

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Day 16 is asking us to talk about our biggest accomplishment. All of the other posts I’ve read on this one has to do with their children, families, etc. Unfortunately I haven’t had the chance to have those things yet so my biggest accomplishment is a bit different.

Having grown up with my parents divorced, I feel my biggest accomplishment is turning out a healthy normal teenager and going off to college. Putting myself through college (pretty much by working many jobs and taking out loans) but also graduating with a Bachelor’s degree in Elementary Education with a concentration in Special Education. I then went on to live on my own (well with my sister), substitute teach for a year (making only $75/day), and then finally getting hired. Within the next four years I was able to save some money while paying for everything I needed, and purchase my own home and live there on my own. Six years later, with the economy being the way it is, I’ve been able to keep my home, have a stable job, and live a fabulous life, all while being the sole provider. There are many women (and maybe some men) who can’t or don’t know how to live on their own. I’m very proud of myself. I am currently in school again to further my degree for my job and I am continuing to pursue my dream of publishing my first children’s book. Once this happens, this will be another big accomplishment for me. My ultimate accomplishment I am most looking forward to is becoming a mom. Until then, I am enjoying making my life better for me and appreciating all of the other little accomplishments I continue to do each and every day. Remember “Enjoy the little things, for one day you may look back and realize they were the big things.”

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What’s your biggest accomplishment?

xo

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Quote inspiration….

20 Jan

Lately I’ve been relying on quotes to remind me of the things I seem to lose sight of~ good things will and do happen, love eventually will find you, and sometimes you must remember- you alone are enough. Thanks to Pinterest, I have all of my inspirational quotes right at my fingertips. I thought I’d share some to shed some light to others that may be feeling the same I do some days.

Gandhi's rules

5 people

never give up

and lastly,

good enough

Happy Sunday!

xo

Never stop believing

25 Dec

believe

On a day like today, it’s easy for me to want to feel ‘sorry’ for myself and want to mope but I decided that this year, I was going to not think about being alone around the holidays. With all of the events that have happened this year both in this country and in my very own personal life, I’ve never more realized what is truly important in life. I’ve learned that things always do happen for a reason. I may still not know exactly what that reason is for some things, but I’ve figured out a few (or at least I think I have).

I’ve also come to still truly believe in miracles and happy endings. I will have what I truly want most in life, and I will have it when it’s right. Sometimes they say “he’s right under your nose and you just don’t know it”, and that may be the case, but I’m believing that every person I cross paths with and every person I form relationship with is for a reason. And who knows where any circumstance will lead me. I can only hope for and believe that at this time next year, my life may be even better than what it already is.

Below is a post from Mandy Hale that I read today and it she explains it perfectly. Click on the link below to read more.

Yes, Single Women…There IS a Santa Claus

xo

Embrace your single’ness’

9 May
“Eventually all the pieces fall into place….until then, laugh at the confusion, live for the moment, and know that everything happens for a reason”~Carrie

Today, just like any other day, I was scrolling through my Twitter feed and I stumbled upon The Single Woman‘s column. And once again, it was as if she was writing to me, for me and as me.

Like myself, she continually has people say to her and/or give the ‘look’ of “She must be single for a reason?!” Little do people even realize, when they say things in this context, is that people who are single are not single for a reason. We choose to embrace our lives as god, or whoever, wants us to live it. Now I’d be lying if I said I never said to myself at one point in my life, “I must be cursed or something.” But in reality, I have now realized it is because I have more to offer and I haven’t met Mr.Right yet. I may continue to meet many more Mr. Wrongs, but that doesn’t mean there is something wrong with me, or anyone else in my shoes for that matter.

“Maybe, just maybe, us single folks are single because we are brave enough to face the glorious unknown of the unaccompanied journey.” ~TheSW

On a day like today, where I felt like my life was being turned from every which way, I stopped to think about what she wrote. I truly believe EVERYTHING happens for a reason, and I have to embrace the unknown that I am continually faced with everyday. Within the past 16 months, my life has changed. I have had unbelievable opportunities and experiences (and they keep on coming), I thought I met the man of my dreams (how quickly things change, sometimes even faster than a NY minute) and I have learned that I am going to be A-okay.

Throughout this journey of mine, I have learned to love my life, accept my life, and never, ever, settle just because every one else around me is doing what ‘society’ is expecting me to do. If ‘society’ says you’re supposed to marry and have babies by the age of 30, then I’m breaking all of the rules. Here’s a little bit of news for society, I’m not following their rules. I’m following my own. Do I want a loving husband and kids? Sure, someday. But right now, god has another plan for me and I can only hope there is someone waiting to meet me and accompany me on my journey. That’s all we can all ever hope for and I know there is someone who will be my better half. However, in the words of Michael Bublé, “I just haven’t met you yet.”

“Don’t ask god to lead the way, if you’re not willing to take the first step.” I couldn’t agree with this more. I know many of us don’t like the unknown, trust me, I’m the first one to admit it, but as I get ‘older’ (I like to think wiser), you truly have to have trust and have faith in your self. Period.

So for all of my fabulous single ladies (and gents), the next time you find yourself a little bit down because you’re home on a weekend night, or going to a wedding alone, don’t be afraid to say to yourself and society, “Yes! I am single. And not afraid to be.” Because someday, we will have the happily ever after. We will have the future we have planned for ourselves in our head. But until then, let’s sit back, buckle up, and enjoy this glorious and fabulous ride of the ‘single’ life.

xo

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