Love yourself first

Seventeen days into 2013 and I’m pretty confident things will be much brighter and positive for me this year. As I look back at how far I have come in even one year, I’m amazed at how things have changed. I’m now surrounding myself with people who have a love for things that I like to do, I’m determined to get fit not only to ‘look’ better in my eyes but to be ‘BE’ better in a sense of healthiness~spiritually, mentally and physically. I’m also not settling into a relationship with the first man that gives me attention just because I want to be in a relationship.

I look around the circle of people in my life and there are relationships and wants that I someday would like to have and there are also things that I do not want to have. I am making a promise to myself to find true love, which to me is a healthy and loving relationship with someone who wants what I want and cares for me unconditionally. I will no longer feel like I have to adhere to society’s take on what a 33 year old woman’s life should be like.

As I browsed my favorite girl’s website today, Miss Mandy Hale ~thesinglewoman.net, she couldn’t have written a better post. We as women who haven’t found our Mr. Right yet, need to continue on our road called Life and know in our hearts, it will happen. For all we know, he could be ready and waiting for us. But until then, we shall love what we DO have in our lives instead of what we DON’T. Make 2013 count and make it a memorable one!

It’s better to be someone who’s single than someone who settled.~ The Single Woman

Happy traveling!

xo